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Generation Y or The Entitlement Generation, Current youth labeled Entitlement Generation

webmaster Jun 27 2005, 04:21 PM Post #1

I read an article that really interested me it was on yahoo titled "The Young Labeled 'Entitlement Generation' " I thought it was a very good article that explains a lot about the teens and youth today. Here is a link to the article:

Click here for the Article

It also has some links to some very good resources about "Generation Why" that you should check out. I will be adding those links to my resources page soon.

After reading the article, tell me what you think. Do you think this describes kids today and if so what can we do to help them be more humble and motivated.


Lady Incredible Jun 27 2005, 08:48 PM Post #2

I think today's kids are spoiled somewhat and aren't held accountable for their actions, why else is the juvenile system so full. The kids in my state actually laugh if you tell them they are going to court and threaten to put them in custody.
Now don't get me wrong, not all kids are bads and I believe that even the best parents have bad kids. I'm talking mostly about the juvenile system. If we don't hold these kids accountable for their actions then what are they learning?
Okay, I could ramble but I'll get off my soapbox now


catch Jul 5 2005, 02:38 PM Post #3

You are right lady incredible. Anyway these kids aren't afraid of court or juvinile to them juvinile hall is just another fostercare home. Besides these kids are smart they know most of the time they are going to get an easy rap because of their backgrounds and most of them aren't too worried about what laws they break until they turn 18 they know whatever they do before they turn 18 isn't going to count against them later. They might be scared of prision but juvinile is a joke. they can do whatever until they are 18 and someone still has to take of them and they know it or they can always say they are seeing things and go to the mental hospital instad. I have actually had a seven yr old tell me" miss im just going to keep telling the doctor I see stuff so that when I grow up I can get a crazy check from the state and keep my checks going. And miss if you tell my therapist I said that she'll just tell you im only saying that because of my emotinal problems, besides the more messed up I am the more money they get. beleive me I know whats up. "

As for being spoiled these kids get their college paid for, for all five years and finacial help once they age out of care to help them get started. I know most of you dont like to look at it this way but at 12 their are kids that kill, rape, have babies steal cars. If your old enough to do the crime your old enough to do the time. and to let them get off easier because of their backgrounds is only handicapping them for the future cause yeah eveyone feels bad for that cute 13 yr old who been beat and molested but what about when hes 18 and then 20, then 30 He cant keep being a cute little kid forever he has to learn at 10, 12 or 13 otherwise hes going to go into his adult life thinking the world owes him a living.


prsthelrd Jul 5 2005, 08:53 PM Post #4

I agree but there is a degree of children just doing what they are taught to do. We have to find a way to reteach them instead of always condeming them. I know there is a fine line there and figuring out who is really willing and wants to change. But you can't throw the whole bunch away just because we don't like the choices they make.

 

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